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Episode 554: Conditioned to Overdo: Dismantling the “Not Enough” Narrative in Your Business With Sasia Lile (Client Spotlight)

podcast Jul 23, 2025
Conditioned to Overdo: Dismantling the “Not Enough” Narrative in Your Business With Sasia Lile (Client Spotlight)

Ready to build a business that supports your real life? In this episode, I chat with Sasia Lile, a retired trauma therapist turned resilience coach for entrepreneurial moms. With over 15 years of experience in CBT and feminist theory, Sasia shares why traditional mindset work often misses the mark — and how to actually rewire your beliefs and honor your capacity. We explore burnout, nervous system regulation, and the internal shifts needed to run a soul-led business without burning out. Whether you’re navigating self-doubt or chasing “perfect,” this conversation is packed with perspective-shifting gems to help you show up with more confidence, curiosity, and compassion.

 

Today you will hear:

  • Why burnout isn’t about time, but about conditioning — and how to recognize subtle signs before you hit a wall.
  • Sasia’s “story framework” for rewiring thoughts and supporting yourself through fear, perfectionism, and old patterns.
  • Practical strategies to align your business with your energy, from flexible scheduling to rituals that restore your nervous system.
  • How to step into your role as CEO, own your expertise, and let go of the pressure to do it all perfectly.
  • A simple, fun breathwork exercise (hello, cookie breathing!) to calm your nervous system anytime, anywhere.

 

CONNECT WITH SASIA:

Website: www.afireflowerblooms.com

Instagram: @afireflowerblooms

The Confidence Calibration Kit: www.afireflowerblooms.com/cck

 

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Holly Marie Haynes is a business strategy coach, podcaster, mom of twins, and founder of the Crush the Rush brand. She helps women create simple scaleable offers and systems to grow to multiple 6-figures.

Holly Marie Haynes is a business strategy coach, podcaster, mom of twins, and founder of the Crush the Rush brand. She helps women create simple scaleable offers and systems to grow to multiple 6-figures.