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Episode 554: Conditioned to Overdo: Dismantling the “Not Enough” Narrative in Your Business With Sasia Lile (Client Spotlight)

podcast Jul 23, 2025
Conditioned to Overdo: Dismantling the “Not Enough” Narrative in Your Business With Sasia Lile (Client Spotlight)

Ready to build a business that supports your real life? In this episode, I chat with Sasia Lile, a retired trauma therapist turned resilience coach for entrepreneurial moms. With over 15 years of experience in CBT and feminist theory, Sasia shares why traditional mindset work often misses the mark — and how to actually rewire your beliefs and honor your capacity. We explore burnout, nervous system regulation, and the internal shifts needed to run a soul-led business without burning out. Whether you’re navigating self-doubt or chasing “perfect,” this conversation is packed with perspective-shifting gems to help you show up with more confidence, curiosity, and compassion.

 

Today you will hear:

  • Why burnout isn’t about time, but about conditioning — and how to recognize subtle signs before you hit a wall.
  • Sasia’s “story framework” for rewiring thoughts and supporting yourself through fear, perfectionism, and old patterns.
  • Practical strategies to align your business with your energy, from flexible scheduling to rituals that restore your nervous system.
  • How to step into your role as CEO, own your expertise, and let go of the pressure to do it all perfectly.
  • A simple, fun breathwork exercise (hello, cookie breathing!) to calm your nervous system anytime, anywhere.

 

CONNECT WITH SASIA:

Website: www.afireflowerblooms.com

Instagram: @afireflowerblooms

The Confidence Calibration Kit: www.afireflowerblooms.com/cck

 

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Holly Marie Haynes

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Holly Marie Haynes

Business strategist, host of the Crush the Rush™ Podcast, and founder of Anti-Social School™. After 22 years in Fortune 500 strategy, I built a life-first business in part-time hours. Now I help women entrepreneurs grow without living on social media.

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A FREE PRIVATE PODCAST FOR WOMEN ENTREPRENEURS

How to Grow a Profitable Business without Social Media

A 9-episode private podcast for the founder in the messy middle of business growth. Inside, I'll walk you through the same framework I've taught 1,000+ women entrepreneurs, the one I use to run my business on less than 1 hour a week of social media. Email marketing, AI, GEO, and the systems behind a sales-generating business that runs whether you post or not.

Less than 1 hour a week. Whole weeks offline. No algorithm. No burnout.

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Holly Marie Haynes is a business strategist helping women build profitable, life-first businesses without social media, through Crush the Rush™ and Anti-Social School™.

Holly Marie Haynes is a business strategist helping women build profitable, life-first businesses without social media, through Crush the Rush™ and Anti-Social School™.